It depends on her mainly.
If she thinks she couldn't live without having children, then it's clear you can't stick together. It's sad but that something you cant change.
yep, It's sad because I feel really good with her, and maybe someday we have to take differents way for this issue.
Hey OP, some options below. You just need to follow one:
1. Freeze some sperm for the future;
2. Do a reversible vasectomy (yes, there are ones that are easily revertible);
3. Let her find a sperm donor;
4. Just do it and hope for the best.
Tough one. Depends in how dead set against it you are. I'd wait till at least 35 to decide. Just because that is when a pregnancy becomes "high risk." And u can use that arguement.
Until then she can just continue on birth control if she is currently in agreement with you?
you could always say yea you want children. get a vasectomy in secret. and then keep trying to have kids but never have any
I'm hyper confused about your culture.
Why ?
Hey OP, some options below. You just need to follow one:1. Freeze some sperm for the future;
2. Do a reversible vasectomy (yes, there are ones that are easily revertible);
3. Let her find a sperm donor;
4. Just do it and hope for the best.
1.Free sperm in my country is really expensive,
2. Also reaaally expensive
3. yeah I actually thought about that, if she want to have achildren he wants to be mine (my same blood)
Tough one. Depends in how dead set against it you are. I'd wait till at least 35 to decide. Just because that is when a pregnancy becomes "high risk." And u can use that arguement.Until then she can just continue on birth control if she is currently in agreement with you?
If I have to choose I prefer to adopt a children instead to have one from my own blood.
And we use condoms because she has endocrinological problems so she can't take any pills for birth control.
you could always say yea you want children. get a vasectomy in secret. and then keep trying to have kids but never have any
I'm actually really stupid, because a few years ago (like 6 or 7) I wanted to make a vasectomy and I never did it because I'm really lazy (also there's a burocratic system here for such things like vasectomy or another anti conceptive methods).
If I done it before I would have avoid a few problems by now.
ywn at some point she's gonna be like, nut inside me cuz i want your children and if you keep pulling out she'll break up with ya silly
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First of all, I know this is a really OFF TOPIC. But I want some kind of advice about my situation.
I'm in a relationship since 2015, when we were at the year of relationship, I clarified that I don't want, and I would never want to have any children, by now she doesn't want too, She has 30 years old, but she claims that she doesn't know if someday would like to have children. does it worth to give up a relationship in a future because of my statment?